December 7, 2018

Our Faith Journey to Love

By Lydia Lin and Gregory Hillendahl
 

Lydia:

The joyful melody of a wedding procession, a church filled with beautifully dressed guests, its sanctuary adorned with colorful flowers on white columns and ivory candles on golden candlesticks. Standing in front of the platform, a tall, handsome bridegroom in a bright white tuxedo with four groomsmen at his side.

A radiant bride holding a bouquet of delicate orchids, arm in arm with her uncle as they slowly walk through brocade-laced arches, her face beaming with joy as she approaches her beloved groom. Ah, this wedding scene has played out in my heart countless times. Is it my wedding? Or am I still dreaming?

For a single girl long past suitable marriage age, I had been accustomed to attending other people's weddings, accepting that, in this life, I might not have the opportunity to ever get married myself. A car accident more than twenty years before still affected my life: blindness in my left eye, ten major surgeries, including four facial reconstructions, spine kyphosis and scoliosis, and the need to rest often. In this situation, marriage seemed hopeless. Yet there I was, able to walk down the aisle of my own wedding. How had I come all this way?  

Greg:

As I stand in this beautiful church filled with warmth, grace, and joyful music, my heart stirs with delight. My Taiwanese princess, my beautiful bride, smiles as she walks toward me. Yes, faithful Heavenly Father, thank you for your perfect timing in bringing my long-awaited, beloved one to me!
 
生命之歌

慧蓉與葛瑞的信心旅程


 慧蓉:莊嚴的結婚進行曲悠揚流蕩,教堂裡坐滿衣裳亮麗的貴賓,講台兩旁白色石柱上,擺著嬌艷奔放的鮮花。石柱前金色燭台,各有七根點燃的蠟燭,閃爍著欣喜的光芒。台階前站著一位碩壯高大,身穿白色燕尾服,玉樹臨風的新郎,他身邊四位灰色禮服的男儐相侍立著。
 
新娘手裡握著一束粉紅淺綠相間、蘭花點綴的捧花,由長輩挽著手穿過繁花錦簇的拱門,滿臉喜笑地迎向心所愛的良人— 啊,這幕在心中上演過無數次的鏡頭,真是我的婚禮嗎?還是我仍在作夢! 

對一個早就過了適婚年齡的單身族,我已經習慣於參加別人的婚禮,心態也接受了這輩子可能沒機會結婚。況且由於我二十多年前的大車禍,左眼失明,臉上多次整型,脊椎前傾又側彎,身體動過十一次大手術,時常要躺著休息。像我這種情況,如今能踏上婚禮紅毯,一路上是如何走到這裡的? 

葛瑞:在這莊重華麗的教堂裡,優雅輕快的樂音中,我心欣喜雀躍。我的台灣公主、我美麗的新娘,正笑臉盈盈地向我走來。啊,信實的天父,謝謝袮在命定的時刻,把我等候一生的佳偶領到我面前!